Music Monday . . . Nina Simone . . . . Brown Baby

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Nina Simone was an American song writer, pianist, arranger, and Civil Rights activist. She was classically trained at Julliard School of Music and was an accomplished  in classical , jazz, blues, folk, R&B and pop.

Nina lived from 1933 -2003 and recorded 40 albums in her long career. She loved to  fuse gospel and pop  with classical music and in particular with  the master Johann Sebastian Bach.

She was born and raised in North Carolina with her disapproving pastor father.  He  considered  the music she preformed on the stage and in clubs to be “The Devil’s Music.”  Nina Simone, though,  pressed on following her musical dreams.

 

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D-Day Conneaut, Ohio

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If you love history and want to learn more about this definitive battle of  WWII, I strongly recommend a visit.  In fact, we are going for our second year.  My friend Eric Montgomery, who was so  helpful in my journey  to get my brother George’s  record  “correct and complete” is one of the organizers.  If you are within driving distance, check it out.  It is all free  including parking, transportation  entrance with  a  only goodwill donations.  The re-enactors  can only participate with 100% authentic gear.  They also provide their own blanks for the battles. You will get to ride, for free, one of the  landing boats and land on the beach which is  ever so much like Omaha!
 
At the end of this schedule of events, I included part of the video of the  4 day battle for La Fiere Bridge where George was wounded. The bridge at Conneaut is so much like the original which you can see if you visit my preceding  post. The  difference is  the trees in Ohio.  Either way , you will be struck with the tiny bridge that was so important in history and where so many of our paratroopers were wounded or killed. 
 Here is an interesting fact about re-enactments .  They obviously have them in Normandy and even in the  United Kingdom, but  there are few if any participants  who wish  to buy and wear the Axis gear!  There is still much pain and history there that is   ingrained in their hearts and souls.  Our boys fought and lay down their lives for freedom over that  despicable fascism.
 We must make sure that fascism doesn’t raise its ugly head again from  either the extremists on the right or on the left.  
 

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2017 Event Brochure
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Conneaut Events
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D-Day Conneaut returns August 17th-19th, 2017

Come help us celebrate the anniversary of D-Day and the invasion of Normandy France.
Now featuring Thursday Activities!

Join us, rain or shine, as we pull out all the stops!

Once again D-Day Ohio, Inc. will invade the Lake Erie shores of Conneaut, Ohio, and stage the largest  D-Day (1944) living history reenactment in the country. Featuring over 1,800 reenactors from across the US and Canada, spectators will witness men, women, and their machines perform a living tribute to the veterans of WWII through dress, mock battles, and living history displays. Meet the real men and women that lived through these times. Last year we were proud to host over 150 WWII veterans and hope to have even more this year.

Come and be a part of this Admission FREE event and experience what people call the most realistic and educational D-Day reenactment of the WWII era.

The event occurs within the beautifully kept grounds of Conneaut Township Park, in Conneaut, Ohio. Just off Interstate 90 (Exit 241), 5 miles west of the Pennsylvania border, Conneaut is just about half way between Cleveland Ohio and Erie Pennsylvania. There’s plenty of free parking with speedy shuttles.  *Entry is free but donations of any size are always appreciated as we are 100% funded by donations.

Though D-Day Conneaut is a very popular event, Conneaut Township park has plenty of room to comfortably stroll around and see amazing sites.(Be sure to check out the gallery). With an estimated reenactor attendance of over 1400 reenactors from all over the US and Canada, there’s little question why D-Day Conneaut has become the one of the largest WWII reenactment in the country.

Parking – No Onsite Parking

There is no onsite parking at the park. There are ample parking areas around town served by our speedy shuttles both Friday and Saturday.  There is no shuttle service on Thursday. (Parking is available Thursday only on side streets around the event.)

Mobility impaired persons and veterans of WWII-Vietnam can park at the CN Dock Company on Day Street, which a wheelchair accessible van will frequent approximately every 15-20 minutes.  Spectators can park at multiple lots around town. Watch for signs in town as you arrive for the most updated parking information, as some lots will close as they fill up quicker then others. See “Visitor Info” page for more details.

Schedule of Events

The D-Day Conneaut event now featured 2.5 days (Thursday, Friday, and Saturday) of scheduled events and a movie under the stars on Thursday Night. Be sure to bookmark this page and check back from time to time to see any additions or cancelations.

Ashtabula County EMA
D-Day Conneaut attendees can get information before and during the event like detours, traffic incidents and emergency information specific to the D-Day Conneaut Reenactment by texting “Add” to 4402614470.   To remove themselves from the list, text “Remove” to 4402614470.


Georgie’s Gal will be back in 2017. 

Liberty Aviation Museum
High command has informed us that Liberty Aviation Museum’s Georgie’s Gal is scheduled to be back for 2017.

Heavy Artillery
This year, we have plenty of new surprises in store for everyone. Once again D-Day Conneaut calls in the “big guns” with plenty of heavy artillery to support our boys in action. Come witness the firing of some of the largest and most feared weapons of the time that proved instrumental and deadly to troops on both sides. 

Long range intelligence reports have indicated that many of our “show stoppers” from last year will once again return to join this great crusade along with some exciting new recruits.  Stay tuned for more information. This year we will once again feature the new Tank Battle on Friday afternoon.

Have a “big toy” and want to join the defense… or attack?
Please contact Betsy Bashore for info and availability.

 

2017 D-Day Conneaut

 

12:00PM – 4:00PM
The Villa at the Lake

Festivities will be Thursday August 17th from 12noon-4pm. Come join us for food, entertainment, music, giveaways and time period dress. Reenactors and time period vehicles are welcome to join us!
Stop by and meet and speak with some of the members of the “Greatest Generation”. You and they will be glad you did.
Villa at the Lake: 48 Parrish Road, Conneaut OH 44030

5:00-8:00 PM
Public Classic car Cruse-in
Join us on the beach for our Classic car cruse-in. Get up close and personal will all types of vehicles, civilian and military vehicles are welcome.

 

Official Schedule of Events
 Last updated May 8th, 2017.

Thursday Activities

There will be no shuttle service on Thursday. Parking is available on side streets around the park.

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Description: Join us for the opening of D-Day Conneaut 2017.


Friday Activities

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Description: Join us for the raising of the Storm Flag, signifying the beginning of D-Day Conneaut.

 

Saturday Activities

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D-Day Reenactors

Description: Opening Ceremonies of D-Day Conneaut 2014- 1st formation of Allied Forces and the raising of the US flag.

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A Beautiful Day in the Life of An Old Paratrooper

Here are Eric Labourdette’s  own words about his jump into La Friere Bridge zone in June 2017.   https://talesalongtheway.com/2017/08/11/eric-labourette-guide-extraordinaire/

” I wanted to jump to honor and remember the sacrifice of all those paratroopers who gave their lives  for our freedom.  I am an old paratrooper and a Navy Commando.  In May, I was at the jump school of round Canopy Parachute Team in le Havre in Normandy to jump.

After five jumps, I was a paratrooper of the RCPT and it was possible for me to jump during the first week of June.  I was in  ninth position in the stick in the plane.

And my landing was at the end of the drop zone not far from Cauquigny.  I noticed the noise and vibration of the engine. But no one was firing !  The jump master ordered, “Stand and hook up.”  My heart accelerated.  The American jump master jumped first.  I remember to see the ground when I crossed the door.  Checked the canopy.  It was fantastic to see the drop zone, La Fiere Bridge and the large visiting crowd I landed at the end of  the DZ.

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A grandfather was very close with his grandchildren.  They ran over asking to take pictures with me. I was proud and honored.  We took pictures with my M42 jacket of the 82nd Airborne.  I hope that those who died here can see that they are not forgotten.  This was a beautiful day in the life of an old paratrooper.

Live your dreams                                                                                                                                      Honor and remember

 

Eric ended, “This part of Normandy is a new star in your flag, God bless all those young soldiers who died in June of 1944.  ( Amen!  My affirmation with Eric’s prayer.)

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La Fiere Bridge

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Our paratroopers had many challenges when they jumped early in the morning of June 6th beside the darkness, fog, and inclement weather.  The Germans had invaded France several years before so were familiar with the the ancient hedgerows which were confusing in navigation for the Allied troops. The paratroopers were scattered all over the landscape in orchards, town squares and in church steeples.   They had cricket clickers to use as  a signal in locating  their buddies.   The Germans had flooded the low land and  many paratroopers landed in the water, swamp , or marches.  The small, slow moving Le Merderet  River was  swollen 3 to 4 times its usual size and flow.

This tiny seemingly unimportant  bridge  was vitally important to the mission because the troops landing on the beach would need it for the march through France and ultimately to Berlin.

Battle raged for 4 days with a victory for the Allied forces but at a terrible cost in lives.

 

Next year, Dale Dyer will release  the first ever film about this battle.  It will be called “No Better Place to Die.” That comment  was said by an officer on site, but I can’t find a name.

Thus ended the fight for the causeway at La Fiére. Laced with individual stories of both heroism and faintheartedness, the tale, with all its confusion, error and misjudgment, shows human strength and frailty in all its diversity. History Net

“The battle for La Fiere Causeway is probably the bloodiest small unit struggle in the                          experience of American Arms. ”

60 men gave their lives and 529 would wounded in the four day battle June 6-9

My brother, Sgt. George B. Tullidge received a mortal hip wound while fighting to take the bridge.  He was given a direct soldier to soldier transfusion due to his  deadly loss of blood.

He was placed on a hospital  ship headed for the UK , but he  gave his life either on the ship or in the hospital on D-Day +2.  He was buried at Cambridge American Cemetery, a long way from Virginia and a long way from  his buddies buried in Normandy!

George willingly gave up his life for all of us and the freedom we have today.

“They willingly gave up their tomorrow                                                                                                 For our today!’

http://www.AParatroopersFaith.org    (Visit the website about my brother.

 

 

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My Number One Favorite Rock Song–Music Monday

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I love rock ‘n’roll!  Well you might say that is because that was the time  I was in high school and college.  And you would be right to some degree.   Funny thing is that I was much more into Simon and Garfunkle, James Taylor, Bob Dylan, and Peter Paul and Mary. These were among the artists who were the bridge between folk music and rock.  Funny, my taste has changed.

This is  the group I am choosing for my favorite song,   The Eagles with the founding member Glenn Frye and lead guitarist in the 70s. And my song choice is “Hotel California” which you can hear  below.

As always there are lots of opinions on what lyrics mean. I read that California is the microcosm of the US and it magnifies the success, attraction of excess  and pessimistic history of America all with the Eagles , the symbol of the US  warning us all.

For me it is the music  that is the most  compelling from the opening dualling   guitars .  The music is both edgy and laid back  with this new sound for the Eagles.  It is never in its 6 + minutes loud noise as much rock sounds to me.  The Eagle always make music.

Memorable lyrics from “Hotel California” :

“This could be heaven or this could be hell.”

“You can check out anytime you like but you can never leave.”

I would love to hear your responses and choices for your fave group and or song. . .  but it has to be rock ‘n’roll !

There is a documentary on Net Flex on The Eagles.  It is ok but just as you can imagine, sex, drugs, and rock’n’roll with rising success, argument  among the big dogs.  Pretty enjoyable but most of us know the story and have seen it before.

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Happy Birthday from Buca Di Beppo’s

Katie and Henry have  birthdays in August and today seemed the perfect opportunity to celebrate .  At the last minute Chris and his family were unable to join us and we missed them  but  a good time was had by all.  Henry is very happy with his new banjo and Katie got a McKenzie -Child’s cake plate and the proverbial   card!

For years, David refused  to enter a Buca di Beppo and I thought it was because of  the tasteless tacky plastic flowers.  Now he loves it  and looks forward to our family outings.  We are seated in the Pope room with a large lazy Susan in the center of the table with a bust of the current Pope Francis.  The food is  simple Italian cooked well if not imaginatively.  Maybe that is a good idea anyway as it is  hard to mess up simple Italian food.   The meal is served family style and the Lazy Susan comes in handy.

The decor is  pictures, many humorous plates, and anything that can be held on the wall, from the floor to ceiling.  Many tasteless tacky pictures are  of Rome and all of Italy.  The decorations in the bathrooms are naughty to say the least.  There is a fountain with a naked  cherub and fountain is filled with water from his penis.  This always gets  many giggles. The plastic flowers are still in boxes outside and inside, but somehow you get used to them.

We have decided Buca di Beppo  has  the tasteless tacky side of the Italian culture down to  to a science and  it is fun, good service, solid Italian cooking, fun  for the kids and I don’t have to cook.  Try it for a group or family celebration and ask ahead for the Pope table. It is very popular and usually only for groups of 11 or 12. After all our time in Rome we love the memories of seeing the pictures and enjoying the food!

 

Celebrate with the Pope

Pope Francis in his place of honor.

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Bring your appetite or bring the leftovers  home for later !

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Eric Labourette, Guide Extraordinaire

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Our sightseeing days in Normandy were Saturday and Sunday which made it possible to have Eric Labourdette available to  be our guide.  On our visit  in 1999 , we had no guide.  All we saw was St-Mere-Eglise , the Airborne Museum,  Utah, and Omaha beaches which we walked through in  the pouring rain.  Even in the  idyllic pastoral site, there is so much history, so many stories , I would strongly recommend a guide.  Eric is not a professional guide.  He is a retired medic/ paratrooper  from the French Army  and  now uses his training to work in the emergency room of a local hospital. It worked out perfectly as he was off those two days and he enjoys guiding visitors especially military tourists.  He was contacted by my internet Dutch friend Thulai van Maanen and he agreed to lead us the two days of our visit.

Now you might remember, there were 11 of us including 5 active children from ages 7-15.  Eric was very patient with the children and low key with the adults.  He would explain the site, make suggestions, suggest a time to exit,  and then answer  questions.  He followed our lead unlike some bossy, distant  guides we passed on the route.

Our decision before arrival was to make a plan.  I deferred to Thulia and asked her recommendation.   She also leads groups to explore Normandy, but was unavailable the time we were there.  She was one of the many people I feel God lead me  to in planning for this trip, the right person, at the right time. . . Eric was one of those people, too! We also decided that since time was short, we would only go to the American Sector. My plan he is to give you the itinerary in case there are those of you who  may which the information for a visit you may be planning.  In following posts,  I will tell you a little of what we learned.

Day 1  Utah Beach Sector

La Fiere Bridge

St-Mere-Eglise

Utah Beach

Dead Man’s Corner

Azeville Stronghold

One  place on the list but we didn’t visit was:

Brecourt Manor (filmed in Band of Brothers)

To let you know what troopers we all were in this process, both days we were out and about doing the tourist  death march  for about 10 hours!  Eric, the kids, the grown children,  and David and me .  It was obvious that they were interested in most of what we saw which made me happy because I want them to “remember” far into the future.

Tomorrow, we will visit La Fiere Bridge on the edge of St-Mere-Eglise.

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The holy ground of Utah Beach.

 

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Musee Airborne

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My Mama would always say that George’s picture was  in the Airborne Museum in St-Mere-Eglise.  When we visited the first time in 1999, I looked for the familiar picture.  I found it but was shocked that he was just one of thousands of unnamed paratroopers.   This was the beginning of my journey. . . . I wanted to ensure that his story would be complete and correct into perpetuity.  What better place to begin our family trip to Normandy and then to Cambridge American Cemetery was St-Mere-Eglise where George’s and my journey began.
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Across the village square from the Musee Airborne, is this little church .  The dramatic entry into the village on D-Day  is immortalized with the parachute and manikin.
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This is a tangible memorial to John Steele who was caught on the church roof when he parachuted into St -Mere -Eglise  on the early morning on June 6, 1944.   John hung there limply pretending to be dead  before he was captured by German soldiers.  Steele survived and during his life visited this site many time, always hailed as a hero by the people in the town.  They never forgot  with love and appreciation that St.-Mere-Eglise was the first French village liberated by our heroes, of whom John Steele is one.
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Travel Logistics to Normandy

Today I will share with you our travels to Normandy. This is going to the heart of the  trip for my family. . . . 11 of us. We were on the way to trace the steps of my brother’s time in Normandy after his jump early in the dark early morning of D Day. He made his way to St.-Mere-Eglise and to La Fiere  Bridge. More on that later on.

David and I started in our Montmartre apartment with an Uber called for 6:30 pickup. Image result for uber taxi images

Well, call is incorrect.  You text for a cab but the very first step is getting the app for Uber when you register with your credit card. You can see on your phone if there are Uber Cars in your neighborhood.   You text, needing your exact address and the exact address where you want to go. You are told then how much you owe, it is charged to your card, and the car appears within the time that is on your phone.

The first Uber that arrived  had a problem. . .. severe language deficiency between the driver and David.  He speaks several languages and usually can get by.  A frantic few minutes as David texted for another.. . . Would he be double charged?  A woman driver came and she spoke broken English.  It was good to hear.  We had decided to take the car the whole way to the airport  to the rental car desk instead of going in the cab to the North Station and going on a train as we did when we arrived.  All went well in spite of the city traffic.  We got our car and headed to Normandy.   Car one on the way! ( We were charged only once from Montmartre to Charlels De Gaul Airport, though it was $60. . . .ouch!)

Car two was our son and his family who had been in Paris for a few days prior to  this trip. He had rented a car in the city  and had an uneventful trip to Normandy.

My daughter and her family were landing that morning after a flight from JFK in New York. I was concerned about checked luggage after the ETA of 9:30  and an appointment  at 3 PM at the Airborne Museum in St-Mere-Eglise. Six of us arrive on time to meet Eric Belloc, who is the curator of the museum.

Eric and I had had a number of messages after a visit we had made in 1999 to the Airborne Museum.  I had found Geroge’s picture, the same one my Mama had in the house , smiling in his uniform.   But there was no Paratrooper’s Faith or name under his picture.!  He was just an unnamed DDay paratrooper.

Here is the display now with a letter from Gen. Gavin just off to the left. General Gavin was the beloved General officer of the 82 nd Airborne Division. He loved his men and they loved him.  He learned all their names and never asked them to jump without him jumping as well.  Once and it may have been the DDay jump, he broke his back in the fall but stayed on the battlefield with his men for three days before seeking medical attention.

Eric Bellow came to meet me and shake his hand.  I gave him a copy of the book my Mama wrote about GBT for the family called FROM POLIO TO PARATROOPER as a thank you for helping me and putting up with my endless questions.

Katie and her family arrived too late to  meet Eric  but with many funny stories of driving in Paris and the kids were starving. . . . at least the two teens were.  They had some twists and turns until they found the proper road to Normandy .  We were all together and now on the way to Domain Airborne where would would stay for three night in Normandy.   Off we went to our 16 Century farmhouse complex!    Stay tuned~

 

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India Media Storm Over 10-Year-Old Pregnant Rape Victim

India media storm over 10-year-old pregnant rape victim
7 August 2017  BBC NEWS

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A 10-year-old girl who is pregnant and has been refused an abortion is at the centre of a media storm in India. The BBC’s Geeta Pandey travelled to the northern city of Chandigarh to piece together her story.

“We have seen lots of cases of teenage pregnancies involving 14 to 15-year-olds, but this is the first ever case that I have seen of a 10-year-old,” said Mahavir Singh, of the Chandigarh State Legal Services Authority.
Mr Singh has been involved in a case which has shocked Chandigarh and the rest of India, that of a 10-year-old girl who became pregnant after allegedly being repeatedly raped by a relative.

That relative is now in jail, pending trial.

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The girl in question has been described as a happy child who smiles easily. She’s shy and not very talkative. English and mathematics are the favourite subjects of this class six student. She loves to draw and is pretty good at it. She can’t get enough of her favourite cartoon shows Chhoti Anandi (Little Anandi) and Shin Chan. She loves chicken and fish – and ice-cream.

But on 28 July, India’s Supreme Court rejected a petition – filed on her behalf – to allow her to abort, on the grounds that at 32 weeks, she is too far into her pregnancy. A doctors’ panel had advised the court that a termination at this stage would be “too risky” for the girl, and that the foetus was “doing well”.
The court order was a huge disappointment for the girl’s family.
‘She has no idea what happened’
Indian law does not allow terminations after 20 weeks unless doctors certify that the mother’s life is in danger.

But in recent years, the courts have received several petitions, many from child rape survivors, seeking to terminate pregnancies after 20 weeks. In most cases, these pregnancies are discovered late because the children are not aware of their condition.
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In India, a child under 16 is raped every 155 minutes, a child under 10 every 13 hours
In the case of this 10-year-old too, the pregnancy was discovered only three weeks ago when she complained of pain in her lower abdomen and her mother took her to a doctor.
Someone who interacts with the girl on a regular basis says: “She’s very innocent and has no idea what’s happened to her.”
Her parents also missed the telltale signs, perhaps because she’s “a healthy, chubby child”. Besides, they couldn’t imagine even in their wildest nightmares that their daughter could be pregnant at 10.
The child has still not been told about her pregnancy and, for those dealing with her, talking to her is like treading on eggshells. She has been told that she has a big stone in her stomach and the bulge is because of that.
She’s been put on a special diet of eggs, milk, fruit, fish and chicken and she seems to be enjoying the extra attention.
But in recent days, police, social workers and counsellors have been in and out of her house, and a media circus has grown up outside her home.
“She might not understand the exact problem, the gravity of the situation, but I think she has some idea now,” a senior official told the BBC.
No abortion for 10-year-old rape victim
Why an MP wants India to talk about child sex abuse
The Indian girls who survived being raped
Her parents are struggling to deal with the situation. The family is poor and lives in a cramped one-room flat. Her father is a government employee and the mother works as a domestic helper.
Policewoman Pratibha Kumari, who has investigated the case, describes them as a “very nice family, who are so simple that they didn’t even realise what this man was doing to their daughter”.
The parents, she says, are understandably distraught. “Her mother has never talked to me without crying. The father says he feels like his daughter has been murdered.”

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The scale of abuse in India
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A child under 16 is raped every 155 minutes, a child under 10 every 13 hours
More than 10,000 children were raped in 2015
240 million women living in India were married before they turned 18
53.22% of children who participated in a government study reported some form of sexual abuse
50% of abusers are known to the child or are “persons in trust and care-givers”
Sources: Indian government, Unicef
What has made their situation worse is that, ever since the news of the rape and pregnancy hit the headlines, they have been hounded by journalists.
“When the girl’s father came to see me, he told me his biggest problem was the press. He said there were reporters outside his home all the time and his privacy was being infringed upon,” Neil Roberts, chair of the Child Welfare Committee, told the BBC.
The media attention has meant the girl is likely to get the best medical care and is entitled to claim financial compensation from the government.
But the unwanted publicity is causing the family immense grief. Many of the reporters went to their house when the father was at work and gained entry claiming to be child workers.
Since the alleged rapist was the mother’s cousin, some even questioned if she was aware of the abuse and, maybe, even approved of it. “How come she didn’t know that her daughter was pregnant for seven months?” they asked.
This has been very troubling for the family, and the girl’s father is angry and bitter.
“I want him to be severely punished. He should get the death penalty or be locked away for the rest of his life in prison. He has admitted to the crime. But he has never said sorry to us,” he tells me in a brief phone conversation.
Before hanging up on me, he asks: “Why are you advertising my daughter’s case? The press have turned this into a business enterprise.”

Campaigners say 50% of abusers are known to the child or are “persons in trust and care-givers”
His anger is justified – even though there are laws that expressly forbid journalists from revealing identities of rape survivors and child victims of crimes, many people have been able to join the dots and identify the family because the alleged rapist’s name was extensively reported in the Indian press. Now their neighbours and his work colleagues know. Possibly the child’s school friends know too.
A local journalist, who met the family in the early days, says the parents are worried sick about the girl’s future and the stigma she will face when she grows up. The father has also spoken of his worries over her health.
Medical tests so far show that her health is “good” though she suffers from “mild anaemia”.
But there are other concerns. The girl was born with a hole in her heart, which was plugged in 2013. Although doctors say it’s unlikely to interfere with her pregnancy, the fact remains that she is way too young to give birth.
Every year, 45,000 adult women die during childbirth in India. The risk of pregnant girls under the age of 15 years dying is two-and-a-half times higher than that for women above 20. Doctors say the risk is even higher for someone who is only 10.
It’s a concern the Supreme Court took on board, but the judges still ruled that the pregnancy could continue.
So what will happen next?
Those in the know say the baby is due by the middle of September and the doctors have decided that it will be a Caesarean delivery. In case of any complications, the birth could be earlier.
Since the girl’s family have said they want nothing to do with the baby, the newborn will be looked after by the child welfare committee until it is put up for adoption.
Medical experts say the 10-year-old is bound to suffer from mental trauma and will need years of counselling from a child psychologist.
“We’ve got our fingers crossed for her,” said a child rights worker. “Can a 10-year-old deliver a child? Could it be life threatening for her? We are praying that nothing bad happens to her.”

Author’s note:  Today, I read that the Supreme Court of India has ruled on permission for the little girl to have an abortion. (India does not permit abortion after 20 weeks of pregnancy. The little girl didn’t know she was pregnant.)   This is a very tough case for me. I am strongly pro-life and believe two wrongs don’t make a right.  That wee baby did nothing wrong and didn’t ask to be born. But this little girl is only 10!  I hope she will be safe during this ordeal and given the care physical, spiritual, and psychological  she needs provided for her.  On the other hand, I am not Indian and would not presume to  interfere except to give my opinion.  I love Incredible India and pray this culture of rape and abuse on woman and little girls, will be stopped. I pray for a trial and justice in sentencing to be a strong message to other  would be abusers.

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