Wild and Wonderful West Virginia!

The New River Gorge Bridge is one of the most photographed sites in this beautiful state of West Virginia.  It is known for the formidable Appalachian Mountains know for extreme poverty and breathtaking   beauty. Yesterday , we drove 12 hours to reach Fayetteville, and it was a lovely end of a very long day.  We had BBQ our first night in the good old south, what else?  It was an authentic southern restaurant in Dirty Ernie’s BBQ, tea was southern sweet and the pace was relaxed and full of friendly staff calling us “mam” and “sir!”

One interesting fact about West Virginia is that though it had forever been part of Virginia, in 1861 succeeding from Virginia to become a border state during the war with most of her men fighting for the Union. There was a small unit who chose to fight for the Confederates.  Choosing to become an independent state and separating from the richer, more well known area.  It was based on a crisis of conscience and to be admired.

 

Here is a short video showing his example of many small towns in America !

 

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“Green Onions”. . . . . Road Trip Music

Booker T and the Mgs recorded “Green Onions” in the early 60s. It is an instrumental rock/soul  song  that has become the definitive  instrumental song of the decade.

 

 

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Sas-Bahu Temple for Mother-in-Law and Daughter-in-Law

Nestled away on a rural side road is this medieval  temple complex.  It honors Lord Vishnu and was constructed in the 11 C.  It is easy to miss though a locked gate and down a hill. Out of the trees a guard appears to open the gate.  He routinely  sees curious tourists drive up in buses to enter, climb around, and photograph this ancient site. We had a guide from Udiapur who knew the routine of a few rupees to enter and then a more generous donation when we left, especially generous if he showed us some treasure and or pointed out a good shot for the camera.

Interestingly, several of the students wrote essays after the Rajashtan trip about this site after the many other topics available. It is no longer a consecrated temple so shoes are permitted as well as entry wherever you can access. The temples are covered with carvings from  the Kama Sutra which is the  ancient erotic love manual written in ancient Sanskrit from Northern India.  It is the oldest manual of passion and most famous in history. It seems rather unusual to say the least that these images are on the facades of temples but of course”fertility” rites were very important in ancient times. The emphasis on the psychological aspects is very interesting.

Here is an article I found for those of you are want to know more!
A carving based on the ‘Kamasutra’ from a medieval stone temple in Rajasthan, India.

PHOTO: ALAMY
By WENDY DONIGER
March 18, 2016 10:44 a.m. ET

The “Kamasutra” is one of the world’s oldest textbooks of erotic love and certainly the most famous. It was composed in northern India in Sanskrit, the literary language of ancient India, probably in the second century—a time when Europeans were, sexually speaking, still swinging in trees. Because of its explicitness about the intimacies of sexual passion, it can still make people today blush.

But the “Kamasutra” has long been misunderstood. Very little of it, in fact, concerns the sexual act, and the bits that do may or may not surprise modern readers, depending on what sort of lives they have led. But the rest of it will surprise them, because the “Kamasutra” is, above all, a profound work of psychology.
The descriptions of sexual positions may at one time have been the most thumb-worn passages, but nowadays, when sexually explicit novels, films, videos and instruction manuals are everywhere, no one needs to read it for that. The real “Kamasutra” is about the art of living—finding a partner, maintaining power in a marriage, committing adultery, using drugs and more. It tells us that anyone can live the life of pleasure—if they have money.
A modern reader might expect the book’s descriptions of sex to be familiar and the details of life in ancient India to be strange. In fact, the opposite is often true: Some sexual details are strange and even repugnant, while cultural matters are often surprisingly familiar.

The “Kamasutra” describes some sexual contortions that “require practice,” as the text puts it mildly. These are the gymnastic positions that make people laugh, uneasily, when the book is mentioned. Sexual reality may be universal—there are, after all, just so many things that you can do—but sexual fantasy seems to be highly cultural.
Did people in ancient India really make love like that? True, they did have yoga, and great yoga practitioners can make their bodies do things that most people would not think possible (or even desirable). But the extreme positions may just be the writer’s free-ranging fantasies. Be advised: Don’t try this at home.
We are in more familiar territory with the book’s psychological analysis. The acuity of the male author is still impressive today, as when he lists the sorts of married women who are likely to cheat on their husbands: a woman who has no children or whose children have died; a poor woman fond of enjoying herself; a woman who is proud of her skills and distressed by her husband’s foolishness, lack of distinction or greediness; a woman whose husband travels a lot; the wife of a man who is jealous, bad-smelling, too pure, impotent, a procrastinator, unmanly, sick or old.

Equally insightful is the list of devious devices that a woman uses to make her lover leave her, rather than simply kicking him out. She talks about things he does not know about. She shows no amazement but only contempt for the things he does know about. She intentionally distorts the meaning of what he says. She laughs when he has not made a joke, and when he has made a joke, she laughs about something else. She talks in public about the bad habits and vices that he cannot give up.

As these instances suggest, an aspect of the “Kamasutra” that has been lamentably overlooked is its strikingly modern attitude toward the role of women in sexual relations. One reason for this ignorance is that the text is known almost entirely through the flawed 19th-century English translation of Sir Richard Francis Burton.

Burton can be admired for the courage and determination it took to publish the work at all (it was banned in England and the U.S. until 1962), but he robs women of their voices, replacing direct quotes with reported speech rephrased by a man, thus erasing their vivid presence. For instance, the text says that, when a man strikes a woman, “She uses words like ‘Stop!’ or ‘Let me go!’ or ‘Enough!’ or ‘Mother!’ ” Burton translates it like this: “She continually utters words expressive of prohibition, sufficiency or desire of liberation.”

Stripped of Burton’s veils, this much misunderstood text serves both as a window into the bedrooms of another culture and a mirror for our own most intimate desires.

Prof. Doniger’s many books include “Redeeming the Kamasutra,” published this month by Oxford University Press, and a translation of the “Kamasutra” (with Sudhir Kakar).

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“Occupied”

Occupy is a word that conjures up images of tents and protests as in “Occupy Wall Street” that popped on the screen a few years ago. So the viewer brings some baggage to this show.  Is occupy and positive or negative word or a little of each?   This is an amazing series that is  on Net Flicks with the first season availability.   It is set in Norway where seemingly overnight their country is “Occupied” by Russia at the request of  the European Union!    Confusing ?  There are layers and layers of this political thriller with environmental issues,  oil , politics and governmental shenanigans! Everyone has a dog in the fight.   There are subtitles and totally unknown Norwegian actors who are great and it was shot in a country many of us know little about. Compelling plot , writing and acting. You will be lost in the story and consumed by the reality of it all! I think you will join us waiting for season two!

I thought I should look to see if I had posted about this show before and I had!  So in case you missed this before, you get double dose of Occupied !

http://https://talesalongtheway.com/2016/01/27/occupied/

Enjoy !

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Arizona Dreaming !

Gary, Brandan, and Sheila Douglas  my amazing hosts for the weekend of celebrations in Mesa, Arizona.  They invited me to Brandan’s graduation party and wanted me enough to send a ticket on Southwest Airlines !  I have never had such a loving and generous gift as a teacher. I think those are part of the Superstition Mountains in the background!

This is Vik and Brandan who both graduated and  we celebrated on Friday and Saturday night. Notice the red truck in the background from Tia  Rosas.  It was the catering truck for the party at the Douglas’ house serving delicious Mexican food for several hours. Such a great idea!

Here are my guys. First is Brandon who is off to study mechanical engineering in the fall. “ON” as I called him to distinguish  the two Brandon/Brandans was my computer helper. What would I have done without him?   Next  is Vik and he is going to prepare in college for work in computers!  Then there is Brandan or “an” who will be at the University of Arizona with a goal of thoracic surgery!   WOW. . . must have been the great math/science teaching I did in third grade!   What a joy to have had a tiny  part in their lives even if ever so long ago!

Saturday brunch time a group of 15 of my fellow teachers and even several former students came for a lovely outdoor, shady brunch.  It was so touching that they took time on the holiday weekend to come to see me!  Even Dr. Cooke , our principal, was there!

 

 

Here are Brandan with Wendy, his fourth grade teacher and Connie his sixth grade teacher.  This family was always so thankful, cooperative, and encouraging for the work we did  as teachers.

This just shows you the lovely Arizona houses.  I didn’t get a picture of the beautiful pool  in the backyard around which was sat. I was talking too much!   All weekend it was perfect weather, blue sky, sunshine and in the 90s. My favorite temperature  is 100!   I loved getting in the car in the afternoon and it felt like a sauna. . .. wonderful for the back~

Thanks to  the Douglases and the Ramaswamys and  all the lovely people who made this an exquisite weekend!

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Kansas Sky Drama

Taken yesterday near Wichita Kansas ~ Add this to your tornado pictures. I have never seen anything like this! There you can see the green black sky !

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Remembering !

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Here are the Daisy scouts marching in the Memorial Day Parade.  Demone and Violet are leading the way remembering those who have gone before us and FOR US. . .  thanks Karen!

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Memorial Day

Anne Bell this is for you. The headstones have been dressed for the Memorial Day Service on Monday

 

 Tracey is a docent at the American Cemetery in Cambridge, England.  We have become  friends because of my brother is buried  there.  She is one of the people committed to these stories  Each of those headstones  tells the story of a hero who gave his or her life for the rest of the world.  Remember them today with thanks in your heart.

http://www.aparatroopersfaith.org is my brother’s story.

Thank you members of the “Greatest Generation.” May your stories and vision never be forgotten!

 

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Tornado Alley

May is the busiest month for tornadoes or storms as they are called in Tornado Alley.  How  do I know that?  We  lived in Manhattan Kansas for three years. We knew that storms were taken very seriously as the “alarm” was sounded ever Monday morning  at 10:20 to insure working order.  We knew which corner was the safest for protection  in the basement in case of a siting.  We knew that anytime day or night there was hail after a thunder ad lightening storm that the atmosphere was ripe for tornado formation and that always the storm chasers were out looking for a  storm.  If anyone was seen within a mile of the town, the siren would be set-off.  We knew how erratic the storms were and that a house maybe flattened and the house right next door would be safe as the storm set down and then immediately lifted.  The most dramatic one that I  have heard about was a mile wide storm that wiped out the downtown of Topeka with this mammoth  storm slowly moving down main street for 20 -30 minutes.

There are several very good films about tornadoes as people are fascinated by them.

One thing which you won’t believe is that the sky turns green. . . . . . it can  and it does. I have seen it with my own eyes!

 

 

 

 

 

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The Widow’s Mite

“Jesus sat down opposite the place where the offerings were put and watched the crowd putting their money into the temple treasury. Many rich people threw in large amounts. But a poor widow came and put in two very small copper coins, worth only a few cents. Calling his disciples to him, Jesus said, ‘Truly I tell you, this poor widow has put more into the treasury than all the others. They all gave out of their wealth; but she, out of her poverty, put in everything—all she had to live on.” 
– Mark 12:41-43

Just about every Monday when I go to the pantry, I see the truth in these scriptures.  This is the story of “sacrificial giving,”  so important that the story is repeated in two of the Gospels, Mark 12 and Luke 21.

Jesus and his disciples were watching as people put their money into the temple offering containers.  Jesus said, “The rich give out of their wealth and the widow gave her two mites( which equals 1 penny) out of her poverty.”  The widow gives more.

Now we have no baskets for collecting  offerings at Conserns-U so you might wonder what I am talking about.   It is the attitude that most  of the clients exhibit. Often they will say, ” I don’t need 6 servings of vegetables or fruit, “Please give it to those who really need it!”  They are careful to take only what they know they need or can use so that there will be food for the those in real  need. They are giving their “two mites.”

Now before you think I romanticize the pantry, let me say that not all are so selfless.  We have some clients who either ask for more than is required in each category or try to  take more than is their allotment. Just like all groups of people in this world, we serve  both  generous and selfish people.

This lesson is  about  sacrificial giving  by this widow whom herself  was in need of charity, but she had a heart to give to others.  She knew what it is to have desperate need. This is just another paradox of Biblical truth from Christ’s teaching  as this one found  in Matthew 16:25:


King James Bible
For whosoever will save his life shall lose it: and whosoever will lose his life for my sake shall find it.

 I am convicted. . . . . .

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