The Square

My daughter sent me this trailer on Facebook. She knows how much I loved our visit years to Egypt, years ago. The people we met were so warm and friendly. This film is being shown in New York and LA at the moment. It was nominated for an Academy Award and is available on Netflix. Be inspired by the courageous young Egyptians, their desire for freedom in a secular country, and their willingness to die to attain it. I have several posts starting on June 30, 2013 about the revolution in Egypt.

Freedom is what young Egyptians want!

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“Hard Places”, the Life and Service of Dr. Tom Little in Afghanistan

Dr. Tom had served as an optometrist in Afghanistan since 1977. He and his family stayed during the Russian invasion and during the war with America. Dr. Tom felt that these were his people and they had no other care without him. He ,along with 7 foreign aid workers, and 2 Afghans were killed on August 6, 2010 by the Taliban who claimed the killings. Dr. Tom never took sides or withheld treatment to anyone who came to him, including Taliban. He loved Afghanistan and the people. Libby Little, Tom’s wife was awarded the highest civilian honor in the United States, the Presidential Medal of Freedom by President Obama in honor of Dr. Tom’s 30 selfless years of faithful service in Afghanistan. Meet Tom and Libby, the other workers, and Afghan people in this documentary. The film, “Hard Places” will be released in 2014. Michael Swantek the editor, was my son’s best friends as they grew up. Chris and Mike were forever taking movies with a small camera. Mike went on to study film, work in Hollywood, win awards, and now is concentrating on documentaries. Chris moved on to business, and they are still friends. To learn more visit the Hard Places.com

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whitesonlyExamples of Jim Crow laws

From the 1880s into the 1960s, a majority of American states enforced segregation through “Jim Crow” laws (so called after a black character in minstrel shows). From Delaware to California, and from North Dakota to Texas, many states (and cities, too) could impose legal punishments on people for consorting with members of another race. The most common types of laws forbade intermarriage and ordered business owners and public institutions to keep their black and white clientele separated. Here is a sampling of laws from various states.

 Nurses: No person or corporation shall require any white female nurse to nurse in wards or rooms in hospitals, either public or private, in which negro men are placed. Alabama

Intermarriage: The marriage of a person of Caucasian blood with a Negro, Mongolian, Malay, or Hindu shall be null and void. Arizona

Education: The schools for white children and the schools for negro children shall be conducted separately. Florida

Burial: The officer in charge shall not bury, or allow to be buried, any colored persons upon ground set apart or used for the burial of white persons. Georgia

Housing: Any person…who shall rent any part of any such building to a negro person or a negro family when such building is already in whole or in part in occupancy by a white person or white family, or vice versa when the building is in occupancy by a negro person or negro family, shall be guilty of a misdemeanor and on conviction thereof shall be punished by a fine of not less than twenty-five ($25.00) nor more than one hundred ($100.00) dollars or be imprisoned not less than 10, or more than 60 days, or both such fine and imprisonment in the discretion of the court. Louisiana

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Theaters: Every person…operating…any public hall, theater, opera house, motion picture show or any place of public entertainment or public assemblage which is attended by both white and colored persons, shall separate the white race and the colored race and shall set apart and designate…certain seats therein to be occupied by white persons and a portion thereof , or certain seats therein, to be occupied by colored persons. Virginia Colored Only

Restaurants: It shall be unlawful to conduct a restaurant or other place for the serving of food in the city, at which white and colored people are served in the same room, unless such white and colored persons are effectually separated by a solid partition extending from the floor upward to a distance of seven feet or higher, and unless a separate entrance  the street is provided for each compartment. Alabama                                         from http://www.jacksonsun.com

January 20, this year, is the national holiday for the celebration of Martin Luther King, Jr.’s  birthday.  He was the civil rights leader in the 1960s who worked tirelessly in the style of Mahatma Gandhi using  non-violence to get these laws repealed and ensure that  Jefferson’s tenet of “all men are created equal” was the law of the land for all. PH2007122101527 He was a minister of Christ who wanted change but not violent change. He lead sit-ins, and marches to drew the light to the injustice of  these situations, especially in the southern United States. 1963pic

The local police were not “non-violent” bringing dogs and fire hoses  to the marches. 12firehouse-against-demonstratorspreview1336059900675

This was  the day I would share with my classes  memories of  growing up in the Jim Crow South in Virginia.  I was and am a primary source of the times. One of the pivotal points was Rosa Parks , an African American women, who refused to give up her seat for a white man. Mrs. Parks was a maid who had worked cleaning for a white family all day and was exhausted.  She was arrested for her disobedience and  became an instant  hero in the Civil Rights Movement.  The law stated that people of color must sit in the back of the bus and if a white person needed a seat , the Negroes would have to stand. Mrs. Parks  said her money was as good as the white man’s and refused to give him her seat.

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 “The Help” is a pretty true depiction of what  my life was like growing up. My family had “help” cleaning and cooking.  The cook was unable to read but she made wonderful fried chicken and other traditional southern dishes.  When I saw the film, I was horrified with the bathroom addition, for “the help” and  remembered that our house had a bathroom in the basement for the help to use!  I wept to see my life in the film from the point of view of the Black American women who did the work in the southern homes. We, my family,  were not unkind  to these women, they were part of our family except there were boundaries, I didn’t notice as a little girl. They ate in the kitchen and had their own bathroom. I saw the  separate signs in Staunton  over water fountains, and at bathroom doors, went to the movies where “we” sat downstairs and the Negroes were in the balcony .

Gertie, one of the maids,  had been the nursemaid for all the families in my  Mama’s family. . . . . a nurse for the new babies. I was her last baby and my family kept her on.   She had no family and continued coming to work in our house until she died. My Daddy paid for her hospital and funeral bills. We were her family at her funeral services.  Mary, the other maid,  came to do the work that Gertie was unable to do as she grew older.  Gertie  was an honored guest at my wedding. I think she knew we loved her. 

I was a product of  segregated Virginia public schools.  It takes a long time to change hearts and minds. My husband lived in Maryland, and those schools were integrated immediately.  Virginia insisted that all  the schools were equal.  “Separate but   equal” but were they ?  Of course not!  I graduated 10 years after Brown vs. Board of Education, when  the Supreme Court  ruled  full integration in  public schools.  In Maryland,  integration happened immediately, but not in Virginia.  I graduated without ever having a black teacher or student in my school. 

 

I remember one of the last classes I taught in Arizona, and the reaction to my tales about Jim Crow.  They were horrified and insisted that it wasn’t true. They thought it was one of my “tales”.  From their life and perspective it was  an impossible situation.  I assured them that we have made lots of progress if they felt  that way, but we must never forget.

It was just the way it was when I was growing up . . . . . not an excuse but a reason.  There is no excuse for this inhumanity that was fostered onto other humanity.  In the words chiseled into a stone table at Dachau Concentration Camp in Munich, it must happen  “Never Again.”

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Rock Stars ?!? (re-blogged from February 2013)

locator-map-Ahmedabad-273x300Ahmedabad is not a tourist destination. It is a working class city which used to be called the Manchester (UK) of India due to the many fabric mills. It could also be dubbed the Boston of India because of the 42 institutions of higher learning in or around Ahmedabad. None of my India American friends had been to Ahmedabad. Ironically, it was voted the most livable city in India for the year 2012. Mr. Modi, who is the chief  minister for Gujarat, the state around Ahmedabad, has been selected by his party, BJP,  as their candidate  for Prime Minister in the  2014 elections.  This is because  of his  business success in Gujarat.  The young people and educated middle class have high hopes for financial benefits if Mr. Modi should be appointed Prime Minister. India has a Parliamentary System as in Britain.

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None of us were prepared for the reception we received when we arrived. Everywhere we walked, people smiled, said hello, and asked to have a picture taken with some or all of us. This wasn’t just the “twenty-somethings”, but David and me as well.  They would motion for us to remove our sunglasses to check eye color. If it was blue, we were rewarded with a huge smile. Two students were particularly popular for pictures.  Tyler, a redhead with blue eyes, a towering   6’ frame, and a gregarious personality, makes friends everywhere he goes.  Erin has golden curls and deep blue eyes. She has had repeated proposals of marriage, to which she sweetly smiles and acknowledges with a polite “No, thank you.”

From these experiences as well as watching Bollywood videos and commercials on TV for skin lightening products, it is evident that light skin is desirable. There are people of all ages with a certain shade of red hair which I image is a result of trying to lighten their hair. I guess it is the human condition that makes people long for something different; such as Westerners working hard to darken their skin even to the extinct of endangering their health in tanning beds.( I have since discovered that the “henna hair” is a sign that a faithful Muslim has made a Hajj to Mecca and is entitled to this sign for all the world to see. I am not sure if Hindus use it on their hair or not. )DSC_0406

The pictures: 9th graders and me at the Modhera Sun Temple

Step Well near Ahmedabad , David and me on the steps. Pictures by Shane.

My favorite picture is of the mother who had handed me her baby son so un-expectantly.  I know now, that she wanted me to touch the top of his head in a blessing.  Mothers’ love is universal!

Many thanks to the gentle, friendly, welcoming Indians of Ahmedabad!

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Lone Survivor, A Movie

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The long awaited film about Operation Red Wing, a covert mission by Seal Team 10 in 2007   has been the #1 film in the country for several weeks.  We saw it yesterday. The ending is no surprise as it is clear from the title.  The story, though, is full of suspense, and  emotional connection with the characters deep in Afghanistan.  The seals are on a mission to capture or kill a high level al-Qaeda operative  when they  are ambushed by the enemy in the mountains  high above the village where their target is located. Faced with an unexpected moral dilemma, the band of brothers is isolated  from  the help of  their comrades and surrounded by a large band of Taliban ready to kill them.  The Seals dig deep for strength, from the experience of their incredible training. . . . .  and they fight valiantly to the finish.Lone-Survivor

The beginning and the end of the film show actual photos of the training and casualties of real seals.  The film is splendidly directed, produced and acted. It is a docudrama and the reality  jumps out at you, especially the love they feel for each other and the  ferocious fire fight.  This Band of Brothers were  husbands, brothers, and  lovers who fought and died gallantly doing a job they truly loved and believed in .lone-survivor-hooh

This is not just a war movie but also a morality play as “the brothers” are faced with a moral dilemma on the mountain top.  Is there right and wrong in this situation? Is there a higher power and level of ethics other than survival?  They were faced with choices, they discussed their options, they knew the consequences, and they made their choice.  Later the audience is hit with the surprise  love and mercy of some of the people of Afghanistan who lived by their faith and  true principles of Islam. They , too, made hard choices, knowing their consequences.lone-survivor-picture01

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“Love is tangible not abstract.”  Michael Swantek from the trailer of “Hard Places”

https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=trailer+of+lone+survivor&sm=3          (Please copy and paste to see trailer of Lone Survivor)

Experiencing this time and place, my husband and I wept unashamedly throughout this powerful film.

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Sisterhood of the World Bloggers Award

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Many thanks to  my friend Prakriti  at prakritisingh.wordpress.com for nominating me for this award.  She is fairly new to WordPress and doing an awesome job sharing traveling and nature posts. She strives to be an original thinker and doer, and is well on her way, even as a student. She is Indian living in Mumbai and she loves to write. I love to write and love all things Indian.  A perfect match for a friendship!   Please visit her blog.

The Rules 

  1. Provide a link to and thank the blogger who nominated you for this award.
  2. Answer ten questions.
  3. Nominate 10-12 blogs that you find a joy to read.
  4. Provide links to these nominated blogs and kindly let the recipients know they have been nominated.
  5. Include the award logo within your blog post.

Questions

  1. Your favorite colour …. Yellow
  2. Your favorite animal … Dog
  3. Your favorite non-alcoholic drink …. Sprite
  4. Facebook or Twitter  – Facebook
  5. Your favorite pattern ….. dots 
  6. Do you prefer getting or giving presents? Giving
  7. Your favorite number … 16
  8. Your favorite day of the week … Saturday
  9. Your favorite flower …. Rose
  10. What is your passion? ….. Writing and family

My Nominees Are

1. peacelovegreatcountrymusic.com

2. shikiaki.wordpress.com

3. maryamconfesses.wordpress.com

4. nomadfashionista.wordpress.com

5.  globedrifting.wordpress.com

6. myendlessrantsandramblings.wordpress.com

7. anniethinksabout.wordpress.com

8. janineibbotson.com

9.  dearkitty1.wordpress.com

10. sarawilltravel.wordpress.com

Blessings to all!

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Surfing on the North Shore of Oahu

We spent  Saturday going from beach to beach on the north shore ending at Sunset Beach. There were 5, yes, 5 lines of waves visible at once. We could see little heads  of surfers bobbing in the distance waiting for the prefect wave. The waves are highest in October and November when they are 50 feet high for the World Championship of Surfing!

Hawaiian waves sure make the East coast ones look wimpy!

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A Sad Story from China

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By David Tang, Associated Press and Simon Elegant from Time

Beijing >>Horrifying details recently emerged in the news of  alleged forced abortions in China’s impoverished rural provinces. 61 pregnant women were dragged to hospitals and injected with labor inducing drugs to end their pregnancies.

The Chinese government insists that they have banned forced birth control  throughout the country but primary  sources  report a different story. The government knows these practices of forced sterilization and abortions are abhorrent to the Chinese people  and have sparked passionate resistance in the country.  In June 2012, an aborted 7 month fetus was shown on the internet.  The government is now trying to make financial reparation to families when their current situations warrant it.

Meet Gong Qifeng who can remember, when her mind is clear, begging for  mercy for her unborn son’s life as several people held her head, legs ,arms and ankles  down as she was  forcefully injected, directly into her stomach with a strong labor inducing medication.  She was 7 months into her pregnancy with her second baby boy. 35 hours later, after excruciating pain, Gong delivered a stillborn baby.

“It  was the pain of my lifetime, worse than the pain  of delivering a child. I can not describe it,” said Gong, 25, recently in an interview in Beijing.

The forced abortion was administered over two years ago but her horror continues with the diagnosis of schizophrenia which she developed after the loss of her baby. This young couple has now gone to the capital  to demand payment for the expensive medications they are unable to afford for  Gong.p5-china-abortion-a-20140111-870x580

Even in parts of India,  gender  family planning is popular. I think it is a choice and not law, as girl babies are unwanted. This is due to the ancient practice of dowries and payment to the husbands at the time of marriage, which is now against the law in India.  In the rural  farm area  of the Junjab, there is a problem at the present time, of a lack of girls available to be wed to the young men. I read, but don’t have the reference, that brothers are  desperately sharing  one  wife to produce heirs.   Also, women from Kerala are plentiful and  desired for wives, but they are very unhappy to go so far from their families in the south.

There is much condemnation throughout the world both for gender selection abortions, forced abortions, sterilization,  and lack of mercy, forethought, and humanity . . .  ..  and of  the unforeseen consequences. . . . . . . . . . . A mother’s love is universal. . . . . .

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Aloha!

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Aloha is the Hawaiian word used in greeting or parting.  We are back in New York after a lovely 5 days in paradise!   I will share some of the highlights of our visit during the next few posts.

Last  night, I received a comment  on my post  from January 9, 2014 on the book Indian Summer by Alex von Tunzelmann, which you can read on the comments at the end of that post.  I waited until this morning due to lack of sleep and several  flights and   just plain exhaustion.

The blogger is Gopi Krishna B and his/her  comment was about revisionist history in the book Indian Summer.   Please visit my post and read his/her comments. It begins with a question asking if I am familiar with revisionist history.  Yes, I am.  Years ago we lived in Baltimore and there was a trash strike in the city.  On TV there were pictures of rats running in the streets next to huge piles of garbage. We received calls from concerned family asking about this. The architect worked in a downtown office and was in that area daily. He had  seen the piles of garbage bags but no rats.  The news people had obviously seen at least one rat and sensationalized the story with making it RATS !  Or maybe someone had seen several rats, but my husband hadn’t.  They picked and chose what to report and how.  It all is very complicated.  Somehow I think many of us  who live in a country of freedom of the press forget that and just take the medias’ word as Gospel truth, forgetting it is written from that reporter’s point of view and experiences.

President and Mrs. Obama vacationed in Hawaii for two weeks during the Christmas holiday. Everyone  knew that, but there were stories of protesters following him in Hawaii that I don’t remember seeing on the mainland. Granted these protesters were highlighting local concerns such as removal of the US bases and also use of drones, though they are important to all Americans in  light of presidential promises and defense issues.

Instead, we saw pictures of Mr. Obama golfing.

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It does give me pause as to what else has been printed or not printed and who makes these decisions.  I guess, we learn that  it is important to remain vigilant and  aware that there are always two  or more sides to an issue. That is our responsibility living in a Democratic Republic  and for  the future of written history for our children and grandchildren. This is true, of course, for all people blessed with at least some freedom of the press . . . . including India. Thank you for sharing Gopi Krishna B.

The winners or strongest in  the past or present are the writers of history. Is that fair?  If not,  how could that be changed?

Aloha!

Images from Reuters and Hang the Bankers.com

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What the Ancients Knew- India ( Discovery Channel Documentary

Gifts from the ancient people of India that are still contributing to the world at large today. Learn of the science, technology, water harvesting, mathematics, steel construction, in architecture and medicine.

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