Valentine’s Day

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Today is the day many people celebrate by giving cards, flowers, candy or gifts to the ones they love.552px-Valentines_Candy Have you wondered why? The story  goes back to the ancient Romans where  two versions exist.

The Romans celebrated the god Lupercalia on February 15 to  ask for protection  in warding off the danger of wolves.  The second is  a myth of   St. Valentine, a priest  who lived in the 3rd century in Rome during the rule of  Claudius II. 382px-St-valentine_110921-01 The emperor decide he needed more soldiers and that single men were his preference because they would not be missing their wives when off on a campaign.  Being the emperor, he had no restraints and outlawed marriage for all young men of soldiering  age.  The priest Valentine thought it was unfair and chose to marry loving young couples in secret.  Claudius learned of this disobedience and had him thrown into prison and later put to death.  Not sure if he was eaten by the lions!  Tradition is that young couples whom he married left him cards, notes, and flowers when they visited him in prison. Another slightly different version is that Valentine, the priest, while in prison, fell in love with the jailer’s daughter.Before his death, he sent the first ‘Valentine” to his love and wrote her a letter which he signed as  ‘Your Valentine.’  These words are still used on valentines today!

This holiday has been a favorite and celebrated since the Middle Ages.  In my class each year the celebration was a joyful time. Students would bring in valentines. . . .usually generic ones, but sometime in higher grades special cards and even gifts, deliver them into white bakery bags decorated with hearts that perched on each one’s desk. No party is complete without a game or two. IMG_0650

For the party, moms would come with four favorite ice cream flavors voted on by the students, with cone bowls, and every imaginable topping for the students to load  onto their ice cream!  DSC01547

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Red roses say “I love you !”  I am sure your love would be most happy to receive some from you !  There is still time . . . . . . . 800px-Valentines_day_flowers

Before I end this, just a note. . . . .I saw on another  blog, this morning that Iran has outlawed Valentine’s Day because of its origin in ancient Christianity.  That is sad as I think we can all agree that what the world needs is love. . . . . (Thanks Dianne Warwick, and Hal David and Burt Bacharach)

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Leadership

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And I must include  little boys who have the same qualities  and need to be encouraged,too.

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We are in dire need for leaders in our world. Let’s encourage girls and boys to develop these qualities in a loving and safe environment.

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Chai, Chai, Chai

This is for all of us around the world who are addicted to this wonderful tea! You can see some of the beautiful young Indian woman( in my opinion , some of the most beautiful in the world) and a tea wallah and balloon seller on the street. And Indians do pour their hot tea into the saucer to cool it down before drinking. . . . . . .

This Is Incredible India!

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Medical Tourism in India

In the “Best Exotic Marigold Hotel,” Maggie Smith was a medical tourist to India going for a reasonable, safe hip replacement. That was the first time I  had heard of such an idea.  Then 60 Minutes ran a piece on trips to Asia, including India, for expensive medical procedures including orthopedic replacements, face lifts, and even a liver replacement.

There may be one of my readers or a family member who is in need of one of these operations.   I honestly can’t think of any reason not to go for  it and would definitely consider it, myself.. . . . . . state of the world medical procedures with excellent care, rehab and a vacation in  India all for 1 /5 of the cost as in Britain?

I thought it encouraging and forward thinking that medical tourism is being encouraged and supported by the Indian government. They see this opportunity  for their country as  second only to the IT business in Bangalore!

What Would We Do If We Got Sick in India?

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tan05046One of the many concerns with traveling so far from home and staying for four months , was health care.  The university had special emergency  insurance for all of us in the group. I am not sure exactly when that evacuation would be necessary, as thank God we didn’t need it.  It was my understanding, though, that we would be flown to Singapore for treatment and not all the long flight back to the United States.  I guess I was more concerned about minor medical care, especially for David and me.  I thought the young ones would not be needing to see the doctor.  Boy was I wrong.  We had some very strong medicine with a myriad of side affects for the expected Delhi Belly, but as neither of us are medically trained, dispensing it  to  other people’s children didn’t appeal to us.

I asked pretty much from day one if anyone could recommend a doctor and was very pleased that one of the young assistant professor’s mom was radiologist. She recommended  gastrointestinal physician  in our neighborhood!  We felt it very important to have  doctor who was recommended by another  doctor. . . .icing on the cake!  We were prepared with the symptoms arose and David took 4 of the students who had been sick for several days.  The doctor was board certified in gastrointestinal medicine  and cardiology!   We were impressed with the appearance and care of the office, the promptness scheduling an appointment , his thoroughness, including blood work and the  cost of the office visit for each  student was $20 !  He prescribed some medicine and gave instructions for eating, such as rice, bananas, and yogurt to soothe the stomach and introducing Indian food slowly.

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Monici’s mom also recommended Samved Hospital  one of two nearby hospitals, if the need arose. It is a specialized hospital for orthopedic surgery and urology, but we did just walk in and were seen by  a doctor.  It is pretty obvious what tourist complaints are walking in from the street.  I went with students there a few times. One had a broken toe from playing soccer.  another Dehli Belly,  and David took one girl to a hospital in Varanasi which was not as clean and new as Samedved.  I guess everything in one of the oldest cities on the planet is old!

Back to Samed,  We were always treated with such respect …..and deference, actually. That embarrassed me as we weren’t there for an emergency.  We were ushered into private rooms to wait and  be seen before the Indians who had waited quite  awhile , sometimes. I would insist that we sit in the regular waiting room and wait our turn , but they would have none of that. Each visit  the hospital was clean as a whistle, and the care was appropriate and successful.  I would feel perfectly comfortable to go to Samed myself for treatment. That wasn’t necessary but comforting to know.

I did go with another girl to a Hindu hospital way across town, 40 -50 minutes in a rickshaw ride. One of the Indian students had recommended a doctor and called for an appointment.  I remember vividly the ride and seeing a Muslim funeral procession carrying the body to burial, just outside the slum which was massive.  Hindus cremate ,Muslim bury, and quickly after death.  Finally we got to this huge Hindu hospital with a giant statue in the entrance. I don’t remember which god was being honored but just the size.  This hospital was different, I would say public, as patients were lying on the floors waiting to be seen.  Doctors have hours in the hospitals during the day and office hours  in the evenings for  private patients.   We were given  a guide to show us around this new hospital  and get us to the places we needed.  Hardly a word of English was spoken, but by the doctor. Again were were given special and immediate attention and all eyes were on the two white women.  Again I tried to wait our turn , but it was useless.  X-rays were taken and the hospital  was so huge, that we really  did need our guide.  Again the cost was minimal and the hospital had a dispensary for the very reasonable meds.

Well, all this is to tell you if you need medical care in India, excellent care is available.  Many of the doctors have trained in the US or the UK. My dentist in Arizona said, “Indians are quite intelligent  and gifted in science.” That was my experience.

I was very careful to follow the travel nurse’s directions and I had only one night of discomfort.  The students would eat street food for $0.30 a night and then be sick for 4 days!  We met a family in Varanasi  airport. Both the partners were doctors  back to visit their Indian family  from their new home in California.  The man told me that they get sick every time they come back to India. There are many reasons why. . . .  “different everything.”  I even continued to brush my teeth with bottled water to the very end.   Though I have to admit during the last week, we visited Manek Chowk for the night feast, and I couldn’t resist the delicious food and was fine!

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I wish I had Manici’s mom’s phone number to give you but your hotel or guide can give you good information.  Don’t let fear of medical care keep you from incredible India! It is different ,but all good if you choose carefully!

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Star Spangled Banner

This video is a recording of 1000 Kentucky All-State Choir voices filling this 18 story hotel with the Star Spangled Banner, as you have never heard it. It brings back a memory from our trips to Rome with students. I remembered walking by the American Embassy , seeing the Stars and Stripes flying and being overcome by how blessed I felt at being an American. Our first trip to Rome was in the middle of the days when Red Brigade terrorists were kidnapping Nato generals. There were plenty of people then as now who don’t feel love for America or Americans.

Anyway, I imagine that most people seeing their national flag and hearing their national anthem feel love and pride for their country. Oh well, it just seems an appropriate connection in the midst of the Soshi Olympics!

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Four Rickshaw Drivers

Here is another of my favorite posts. If you can wade through the 800+ words, you will meet some amazing Indian rickshaw drivers! 

 

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From day one in India , we have had a love/hate relationship with the rickshaw/tuk-tuk and  we are still alive after 45 days. I guess we won.   It is cheap transportation…$0.20 for one way to Cept University. The most expensive rides have been $2.00.   Cheap, safe? What is the hate side of the story?  Well it scary, that’s what.  Rickshaws going in all directions. Yes, they scoot in the  wrong way. Cars are on the left side (thank you British) and  rickshaws squirm in and out and sometimes on the wrong side of the wrong side traffic! It is a lot like Mario Cars video game but it is real. I told David I would never criticize his driving again…a promise I hope I can keep.( Back in the US, nope, couldn’t keep that promise!)  I mostly close my eyes and pray. Not a bad idea in any circumstance, praying that is. Please watch the video on YouTube of crazy rickshaws in Varanasi. There was no footage taken in Ahmedabad, and Varanasi was the worst, crazy traffic I have seen. Here is the best of the worst! Notice auto as well as man powered  rickshaws. In Ahmedabad, there are none  of the people-powered ones which  are a throwback to ages ago, yes from the British.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=98prHZuTYPI (Crazy Rickshaw Ride in Varanasi India)

Now I want to tell you four short tales of rickshaw drivers, along their daily work  on the roads of India.

The first tale was weeks ago, shortly after we arrived.  A strike was called for drivers to protest for 72 hours because of  the rise in fuel prices.  This  price rise would increase the minimum  they had to  charge and theoretically they would have less business. I was going with a visiting Canadian professor to NID, ( The woman who took us to the Kite Festival.)  National Institute of Design.  We noticed there were fewer rickshaws, and fewer who would stop, and NID is way across the city. Finally, a young man stopped for us. We entered and he said, he would have to take us by a back route to avoid the strikers. He said he was saving money for college, warming the hearts of two visiting teachers.  As we reached our destination, and exited to pay the driver, suddenly three thugs ran up as we stood  right there paying and started pounding on the small rickshaw driver.  Skye, her student, and I started yelling, “Stop, stop,” and after a few moments they ran off as quickly as they had appeared. The driver was badly shaken but not badly hurt. As we entered the grounds, we looked back to see him sitting with his head on the wheel, not driving away.

One morning, I was catching a rickshaw on my own.  A beggar women approached and started patting me as she pulled on my sleeve. This is quite distressing to me and what she  wants. But everyone says not to give them money because it goes to someone they are begging for. This seems to be true because we have given beggars food left over from dinner that we had parceled for them, and after taking the food, they still ask for money.  The driver said something to the old woman and she moved up next to him. He took a coin from his pocket and gave it to her. It reminded me of the “poor widow’s mite offering” from the Gospels and how that pleased God. RIckshaw drivers are not wealthy people.

The third tale happened one night David and I were returning from dinner. We had gone to Souk for some hummus. The ride was uneventful and we got out to pay when the driver replied to David’s inquiry of the price, “No charge Uncle, welcome to India!” We were very touched at his gift to us, given from the goodness of his heart… caring for strangers.

The last story happened just a few days ago. We had arrived at the end of our lane and David was paying. The driver said, “No, too much,” and returned 10 rupees to David.  He had inadvertently given the driver 30 rupees instead of the requested 20.

If you watched the video, you saw images of the poverty in India. Many of these drivers work for someone else, while some have their own rickshaw.  Gas is $6.00 a gallon. They are squeaking by, I imagine. There is a rising middle class as evidenced by the TV commercials, but these drivers are not part of it. Blessings for these four men who were kind beyond the call of duty, honest, caring, and friendly to a woman from far, far away

Of course, there are always the bikes, either motorized or peddled!

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This huge male monkey was resting on the motorbike just outside the Jain Temple in our neighborhood.

This Is Incredible India!   And I hope you  can see why I hold these dear Indian people in such high regard!

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Beatlemania Began 50 Years Ago Today

Fifty years ago, was 1964 and I remember these television shows as being full of wonder and excitement.  Ed Sullivan was on Sunday night and my youth group at church was cancelled because everyone wanted to see this British phenom known as The Beatles! Please sit back and enjoy a few minutes of cultural history that changed the world, or at least the music of the world!

Notice the clothes, hair styles, and the mothers and or grandmothers of today’s screening teens!

Thank you John, Ringo, George,and Paul.

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A Humanist Capitalist in India

From scandal to success: Turning around India’s Enron

By Anthony ReubenBusiness reporter, BBC News

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In January 2009, a corporate scandal emerged that became known as the Enron of India.

The chairman of Indian IT firm Satyam Computer Services admitted that its accounts had been falsified, in a case that echoed the collapse of US energy group Enron.

India’s government stepped in and appointed a new board to try to sell the company.

It was bought by Indian conglomerate Mahindra Group, which renamed it Mahindra Satyam, and put Chander Prakash Gurnani in charge.

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We decided no, this is not their [the workers’] fault. They need to go back home and say they’re still employed”

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“Some of us had a firm belief that while the company’s accounting books were toxic, the people were not,” he says.

Faced with the challenge of rehabilitating the company, Mr Gurnani set about trying to convince everybody that it was still viable.

“I was on the road for 250 days in that year, being in front of every client and explaining,” he says. “Frankly, all I did that year was talk, talk, talk, talk to the people and customers, day in, day out.”

But at the same time he had to engage with regulators and prosecutors.

“There was a fraud committed, and there was a fraud investigation going on,” says Mr Gurnani.

“We had to be able to answer everybody, and still maintain delivery excellence, still maintain investment into the future of the company.”

Bruised morale

One of the urgent priorities when Mr Gurnani starting running Mahindra Satyam was to reduce the headcount from 53,000 people to about 35,000, to help return the company to profitability.

He and vice-chairman Vineet Nayyar agonised over how to go about doing this without damaging the already bruised morale in the company.

Mahindra Satyam building in HyderabadMr Gurnani decided that departing staff would still get paid for six months

Mr Gurnani says he didn’t want to hurt the affected staff, who would struggle to find new jobs in an Indian IT sector battered by the global recession.

Academic institutions and HR professionals all advised him the company should just pay off staff and get rid of them as quickly as possible. Mr Gurnani chose to ignore this advice.

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He says: “We decided no, this is not their [the workers’] fault.

“They need to go back home and say they’re still employed. The family does not want to bear the additional trauma of working in a company that has now been declared Enron, while the neighbour is asking, ‘Was this the guy who was a fraud?'”

So instead of getting rid of staff overnight, Mr Gurnani decided that those affected would receive a small salary for six months and help in finding new employment.

“In those six months we had psychiatrists, we had a training department, we had job fairs, and we were doing all that to make sure that those people found a home,” he says.

“Is this something that has been done before [in India]? No.”

Mr Gurnani’s next decision was that instead of trying to deal with all the company’s problems in one go, he would break it up into 11 streams, which would be more manageable.

Proving sceptics wrong

Of his remaining staff, Mr Gurnani says: “Crises like this bring out the best in the people.

“If I have to salute one thing, it is the grit and the determination of the people, of my associates, who wanted to succeed, who wanted to prove the sceptics wrong.

Employee of Tech MahindraMahindra Satyam has since merged with Tech Mahindra

“I don’t know whether I convinced them or they convinced themselves. I don’t want to take any credit on this.”

But he says that he had a simple formula for getting his message across to his still large number of staff.

“I believe in an equation, which says one guy can convince 10; 10 can convince 100; 100 can convince 1,000; 1,000 can convince 10,000. And trust me, I used that communication method to the hilt.”

Mr Gurnani says he also valued working alongside vice-chairman Vineet Nayyar, a colleague for the past 20 years.

“He and I were joined at the hip to make things happen, and in many ways I think a pairing worked to our advantage.

“I was on-the-job training, and it’s not that we don’t make mistakes – we made mistakes – but having two people talk to each other 24/7 was a huge advantage.”

The rehabilitation of Mahindra Satyam was completed in June last year, when the company merged with its sister company Tech Mahindra.

Mr Gurnani was put in charge of the combined group, which took the Tech Mahindra name.

He is now aiming to double the company’s revenue by the end of 2015, through a combination of acquisitions and organic growth.

Five years on from a scandal that would have destroyed many companies, Mr Gurnani is now aiming for stellar growth.

Another HERO just doing his job in a sensitive, new way.  

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Sir John Soane’s House and Museum

I just recommend this very special home and collection to an English friend this week. It is one of two of my favorite museums. The other being The Isabella Stewart Gardener Museum in  Boston.   My problem with the large museums is that I am not an architect or historian and have no idea what in each room is the “not to missed” object and I get exhausted after  a few rooms of trying to look at everything.  Docents point out special things in each room,  but the architect prefers to view the exhibits on his own. Sigh. . .  Mr. Soane, architect and collector extraordinaire,  renovated three row houses to hold all his treasures and  that is easily visited.  But be sure to look up and around in  360 degrees at all times.  If you are in London, and have a chance, visit Sir John’s collection that even contains a pharaoh’s alabaster sarcophagus which was thought too pricey  for the British Museum.  You won’t be disappointed, I am certain.

Architect says that professors don’t get rich, but there are other perks to the job!

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Sir John Soane's museum, London, England, Great Britain

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